Romance in Islam

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14 responses to “Romance in Islam

  1. Strange!
    no comments??

  2. Abu Sadat Nurullah

    You mentioned:
    ”Bringing flowers for your loved one, looking beautiful for your mate, having a candle-light dinner with your mate.”

    How does that happen without dating/knowing closely someone before marriage? It’s natural that after marriage the husband and wife can/should have romantic relationship. Does that mean you should not know the (future) spouse well before marriage?

  3. Asalamualikum,

    SubhanAllah, for such n enlightening masterpiece. i truly believe dat if we follow the path of Islam, nothing will go wrong in any way.
    Allah bless us all, Ameen Suma Ameen on the right path of Islam.

    Regards
    Bintihaq.

  4. Salaams,

    Good work asma.Actually i think that our mullah,s have interpreted the quran in a such a way to actually so as make it immensely hard to follow the right path .I believe it is extremely important for all of us to read Quran in order to understand our religion ,how intricately every dimension of life has been addressed.

    I would take a moment here to especially emphasize on the rights of women in Islam and their rights with respect to marriage the highest form of love and affection between a man and a woman.

    It is very important for women to know their rights in the light of Quran with respect to marriage (love and affection)and not just be driven into a life long relationship with any man just because the society has set up some insane rules and framed them as righteous.,the rules which are not even near to what our holy book has laid for us .They have every right and say in their marriages and cannot be be driven into bond without any affection just because their parents think it is right for them.Respecting your parents is one thing but don,t forget to execute your rights which Almighty Allah has given you becuase he knows everything the best.

    When we go through Quran we get to know how strong and inspiring the women of that era were and how involved they were in shaping the lifes of everyone around them.So be strong and be proud of your existence

    May Allah guide us all and show us the right path.

  5. Gunehgaar Mudasir lone,

    Bismi Allahi Rehmani Raheem,

    Asalamualiakum,

    Maula ya Salli Wasalim daayiman Abadanm Alla habeebika Khyrin Khalki Kulliheme!

    Allahumma Innie Zalamtu nafsi zulman kaseera Wala Yagfir Zanuba Illa Anta fagfirli Magfiratan min Indika Innaka Anta gafooru Raheem!

    Dears brothers and sisters,

    I am immensely pleased with the way you have presented the Quranic and Hadithic interpretation of Love, Marriage and Romance.

    Very few people infact know what Love , Marraige and Romance mean.? But I would like to make two points over here.
    1. Some people need bookish knowledge to have these kinds of attributes in their life. I mean they need to go through hadiths and Holy books like Quran to chip in to it. This is what you people have done marvellously.

    2. But there are some people who are naturally blessed with all these true attributes of Holy Quran and hadiths are just circulating in them with out even knowing what they are naturally equipped with.

    Therefore if you want to know how the things of Love, Romance and marriage have been depicted and mentioned in Quran and reflected in various authentic Hadiths of NabiRehmat SAW in a perfect way.
    The best way is to find a true person with true heart or see where one’s heart stands in that perspective if you want to check your ownself .

    To me the person who has true heart and has paak intentions has these elements ( Islamic / hadthic things) well settled in his/her blood in a synergistic fashion. That kind of person is just the emulation of True and Muqadas characteristics of Prophet Muhammad SAW.
    one thing is that it is difficult to recognise such people because they hardly usher their prime traits of truthfulness. Mostly They prefer to remain unnoticed.

    Any way ,

    Great work done by you people.

    Get married with a righteous Human with righteous soul and paak Heart.
    there is the gaurantee where you are gona get the absolute and pure love.

    Rest Fee Amani Allah
    Rutt Karinaw maula
    Bahaar Haienaw
    To all of you who truely understand truthfullness in its real context.

  6. REyaz Ahmad Khan

    Assalamu Alikum
    Dear Brothers And Sisters !
    It is really good to know that we Muslims are studying the Quran and the Sahih Hadith with understanding and belief.i would like to add that we should stop blaming the Mullahs nad the MolvisAs Quran is an open book for all to read and follow.We put Quran in the best cover ( Gilaf) and place it at the highest Shelf.This practice is to changed.Quran has to be in our Lives ,in our breath and all our acts should reflect the word of Allah.

  7. Aslam-u-Alykum!
    I really appreciate the work that you people have done.It is like an inspiration to all the people who want to be romantic to their husbands/wives and at the same time it teaches us the the different ways of following the other important aspects of the marriage as well.
    Thankyou somuch for puttting forth such information and helping the youth or the newly married couples in understandung eachother and following the religious values to live a good married life.

  8. Aslamm o Alie kum..

    main kuch boluga to log kahtay hain ye lo ji arsh ne bolna shroo kiya 🙂 trust me i am not nose poker but i cant stop myself when i find my nation is walking blindly on wrong path
    kyaa keru adaat se majboor

    1 nimaz ki adaat dalo
    2 try to avoid lies
    3 respect elders
    4be polite always
    5 keep your tune low
    ajj ke liye itna kafi hain
    trust me if we all do it strictly at least lets gv try
    ab mujay mulla na bulana 🙂 mene kaha na main adat se majboor hoon

    ma salama
    Arsh

  9. Assalamualaykum..
    One word.. Beautiful..

  10. Assalamo Alaikom….

    Alhamdulillah….beautiful!

  11. Beautiful, meaningful and very helpful.

    Thanks 🙂

  12. maashalah

  13. Now the big question is, how to get both husband and wife to actually love each other initially after their wedding…..especially since they don’t actually “love” or even remotely “know” each other in the first place. Difficulties…difficulties…..

  14. .. Mashallah … really nice

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